the warnings that remained were either unused code that i wanted to use in the
future, or other type's of todo's. i've been mentally ignoring them, assuming i
would get back to them soon enough to fix them. but that hasn't happened yet,
and it's better to have a clean list with only actual isses.
so mail user agents will show DSNs threaded/grouped with the original message.
we store the MessageID in the message queue, so we have the value within reach
when we need it.
i saw a references header in a DSN from gmail on a test account. makes sense to me.
