our previous approach was to hope clients did the ID command right after the
AUTHENTICATE command. with more extensions implemented, that's a stretch,
clients are doing other commands in between.
the new approach is to allow more commands, but wait at most 1 second. clients
are still assumed to send the ID command soon after authenticate. we also still
ensure login attempts are logged on connection teardown, so we aren't missing
any logging, just may get it slightly delayed. seems reasonable.
we now also keep the useragent value around, and we use when initializing the
login attempt. because the ID command can happen at any time, also before the
AUTHENTICATE command.
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